Dear Pam...I can't remember the last time that I was genuinely happy for no particular reason. I have little to no sex drive, I mope around and am usually snappy and my moods are unpredictable. I feel useless and inside I blame my partner for everything.  Why do I feel this way?

Dear Dr Pam...I've fallen for a guy at work and we get on really well.  I don't know if it's love or not! But I know it feels really good but bad at the same time because I don't want to hurt my boyfriend.  What should I do?

Dear Dr Pam... I've got a muscle weakness which means that I get tired quickly. It also means that in school I use a wheelchair to get from class to class, even though I can walk perfectly fine and do so in lessons.  I often get the feeling that people can't see past the chair to who I am. Why do I feel so lonely and depressed?

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Dear Dr Pam... my father recently got in touch with me after many years and I discovered that I have another brother and sister. I am trying my best to build a good relationship with them all, but they mainly speak Punjabi while I mainly speak English and I'm finding it really hard.

Dear Dr Pam... I recently had counselling to help me deal with lots of issues from childhood and it has done wonders for me. I've started working in a bar and have recently developed feelings for a younger man. But I'm terrified of being seen as the older woman, please help.

Dear Dr Pam... I had a fling that lasted just a week before I got with my current boyfriend but I feel like my ex still has a hold over me. I often find myself thinking of him and wonder if I'm not properly committed to my current relationship because of this.

Dear Dr Pam... I've never had a long relationship with anyone because I'm scared of turning into my father, who was horrid to me and mother while I was growing up. I now feel that I'm ready for a serious relationship, but how can I be sure that I won't turn out like him?

Dear Dr Pam... I find myself getting really anxious when it comes to social gatherings but when I actually go along I find that they are not so bad. I just think I worry too much about what people think of me and that I'm not quite good enough.

Dear Dr Pam... when I married my husband I knew he was a cross-dresser, but lately he is spending more and more of his time dressed as his alter-ego. I'm not sure if he actually wants to become a woman. Please help.

Dear Dr Pam... I've had cancer for the past 15 years of my life. Ever since I was a little girl I've helped my mum around the house, but now it feels like she is running my life. I don't seem to have any freedom or independence. Please help.

Dear Dr Pam... my wife and I have been married for 26 years and have three grown-up children. But now she wants to leave all of us behind and live in Barbados with a man ten years her junior. I don't know what to do. 

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Dear Dr Pam... my partner has four grown-up children and I have a young daughter. We both live together but the problem is one of his daughters is utterly possessive of him - calling him first thing in the morning and last thing at night. It's getting in the way of our relationship. Please help.

Dear Dr Pam... I have been married to my husband for two years but he constantly spends all of his time around at his ex's and I have found text messages between them telling each other they love one another. Please help.

Dear Dr Pam... I'm 30 and married to the man who I've been with since the age of 18. Everything was fine until six months ago when I started falling for a guy at work. He's told me it's only physical but I just can't stop thinking about him. Please help.

Dear Dr Pam... I am in a relationship which I hope will last for the rest of my days! We are both 50 and both have children. But the problem is my partner won't meet any of my friends - and I haven't met his family yet. I'd like us to move forward but don't know how to. Please help.

Dear Dr Pam... I have been with my girlfriend for 13 years but she is incredibly emotionally abusive. I can't seem to do anything right around the house or in the bedroom and I wonder if at 39 I should stay, or leave. Please help.

Dear Dr Pam... my husband of 31 years has revealed he had a three-year affair with the wife of one of our friends. This has come as a complete bombshell and I can't seem to cope with things at the moment. Please help.

Dear Dr Pam... my boyfriend and I have a wonderful relationship and get on like the best of friends. The problem is, I often feel embarrassed in the bedroom, even though he tells me he thinks I'm gorgeous/sexy. Please help!

Dear Dr Pam... I am someone with a huge lack of confidence and have suffered rejection from my parents, my grandmother and now my boyfriend. He has started to turn violent towards me and I don't know what to do. Please help.

As Madonna and Guy Ritchie are heading for the divorce courts, our relationships expert and agony aunt Dr Pam Spurr tackles the tough topic of how best to handle a marriage break-up and protect the children if it happens.

Dear Dr Pam...Out of respect for his mother he has said we cannot be together and I know this decision was very hard for him. Even though religion was going to be an issue for us, I don't think he was ready for the response that his mom gave, which was basically that she would disown him if he were to bring any other girl apart from their religion back home... What should I do?

As Sienna Miller and Rhys Ifans decide whether to split for good or make a go of things, our Sex and Relationships Expert Dr Pam Spurr looks at why mismatched relationships can sometimes be doomed from the beginning.

Our relationship expert and agony aunt Dr Pam has recently received several problems from readers who are being emotionally or physically abused by their partners. Here she talks us through the signs, offers advice on what to do - and reveals how to get out.

Our relationship expert and agony aunt, Dr Pam Spurr, receives many problems from women who feel like they're trying to do it all and failing. And us mere mortals are not the only ones: it's a problem that's also hitting successful celebrities. Here, she tells it like it is.

Dear Dr Pam... In my last relationship, I found out that my partner had been cheating on me all along with another girl - and his friends knew the whole time. I am now with a perfect boyfriend who is really good to me, but I keep trying to push him away. Please help.

Dear Dr Pam... my partner and his family have always had issues dealing with stress but now he gets chest pains and says it feels like he's having a heart attack. He's also verbally abusive and I've started dreading coming home from work some days. What can I do to help?