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A new study breaks it down by the numbers.Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTIn The Bedroomhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5745779http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5745779If this doesn't get you reaching for your trainers then nothing will: recent research has found that fit people are having much better sex than their less active counterparts.Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTIn The Bedroomhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5745792http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5745792It is the superfood of the moment, and supermarkets and health shops alike are rushing to fill their shelves with packets of goji berries.Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTIn The Bedroomhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5745784http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5745784Sexual desire and food have been associated with each other for centuries. We went in search of foods thought to be strong aphrodisiacs. Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTIn The Bedroomhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579687http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579687Our agony aunt Dr Pam Spurr has written a brand-new sex guide: Sensational Sex - The Revolutionary Guide to Sexual Pleasure And Fulfilment, published by Robson Books, priced £7.99. To buy your copy for the special price of £6.99 plus Free UK P&P, simply call 0870 787 1613 and quote ref. CH678. Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTIn The Bedroomhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579686http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579686MySpace phenomenon Tila Tequila recently announced she had over one million friends on the networking website, but just 8% of our social circle are 'real' friends, according to new research. The experts reveal what makes a good friend and why we have mates we love to hate.Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTIn The Bedroomhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579685http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579685Successful seduction of the opposite sex has always been a hotly disputed topic but recent research suggests the mystery of attraction can be revealed. We talk to Dr Raj Persaud about being irresistible - and how to hold onto your perfect partner.Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTIn The Bedroomhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579684http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579684Our Sex and Love Doc, Dr Pam Spurr, analyses what really might be going on with Katie Holmes and Victoria Beckham's friendship.Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTIn The Bedroomhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579680http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579680If you're an AFC who wants to become a PUA and enjoy a little kinko with a SHB, then a dating bootcamp could be for you. Hugh Wilson delves into the world of seduction schools. Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTIn The Bedroomhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579698http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579698Curvy Kelly Brook has the shape most of us envy, according to a survey of 5,000 women by Grazia magazine. Here's who else made the top 10. Click on the thumbnails to discover what they really think of their figures. Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:04 GMTIn The Bedroomhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579696http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579696The Actor Move over Hugh Grant, there's a new boy in town. Having left the world of banking to write and star in the upcoming Heroes and Villains David Raymond will soon be a name on everyone's lips. Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:04 GMTIn The Bedroomhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579694http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579694The photo opportunity of the year so far came on Monday night when Kate Moss and Jemima Khan locked lips at a charity bash. Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:04 GMTIn The Bedroomhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8257905http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8257905I'm a wife and mother of four boys but I feel so sad and lonely I just can't believe this is as good as it gets. My husband is so abusive when we have arguments, it has completely destroyed my self-esteem. Please help. Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8258355http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8258355Dear Dr Pam... In my last relationship, I found out that my partner had been cheating on me all along with another girl - and his friends knew the whole time. I am now with a perfect boyfriend who is really good to me, but I keep trying to push him away. Please help.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8258204http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8258204Dear Dr Pam... my partner and his family have always had issues dealing with stress but now he gets chest pains and says it feels like he's having a heart attack. He's also verbally abusive and I've started dreading coming home from work some days. What can I do to help?Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8256245http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8256245Dear Dr Pam... when my girlfriend and I got together I was a bit more sexually experienced than she was, so we took things very slowly. We only told our very close friends about our relationship, but one of them made a joke which has left her blanking me. Please help.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8255604http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8255604Dear Dr Pam... I recently found out that my mum is having an affair. I love both my parents dearly and haven't told my dad because it would destroy him. I'm now beginning to feel like life is getting on top of me and I don't enjoy doing the things I always used to. Please help.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8255411http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8255411Dear Dr Pam... my husband is so over-sensitive that I cannot have a discussion about anything - however polite or nice - with him. And now he's started forcing our children to go to four hour church ceremonies every week, which they hate. How can I help them out without it causing a war at home?Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8061403http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8061403Our agony aunt and relationships expert Dr Pam Spurr advises brides-to-be how to beat those wedding-day nerves.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7939444http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7939444Dear Dr Pam... I suffered from depression when I was 16 and I think it may be coming back. I'm becoming extremely paranoid around my fiancé and am worried I might drive him away. I've also put on weight since having our baby daughter and feel things are spiralling out of control.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7939129http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7939129Dear Dr Pam... I've recently discovered that my husband has been looking at gay websites and he says he doesn't love me because he doesn't know what love is. We have four children, two of which are having difficulties, and I don't know what to do.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7830479http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7830479Dear Dr Pam... I was abused as a child, and got into shoplifting as a teenager. I currently live abroad with my husband and our children, but I still suffer with bouts of depression and find myself wondering if life would be better back in Britain. Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7640112http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7640112As a major new study finds that anti-depressant drugs don't work for the majority of people who take them, this raises all sorts of concerns for the one in 10 people who suffer from serious depression. "What will help me if anti-depressants won't?" will be a big and justified question on their mind.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7590809http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7590809Dear Dr Pam... my husband and I have been married for nearly 40 years and have a happy, loving relationship. The problem is we're finding it increasingly hard to see our son and our granddaughter, because his wife doesn't seem to want us there. Please help.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7567609http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7567609Dear Dr Pam... I have a great husband and three wonderful children, as well as good lifelong friends. My problem is that I had a very difficult childhood, and it's left me feeling awkward and panicky in social situations. I want to get over this as life is too short. Please help.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7567213http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7567213Dear Dr Pam... I escaped from an abusive relationship which left me with no confidence and a lot of self-loathing. I'm now with a lovely new man who is kind to me and my daughter, but I keep feeling that I have to prove myself to him, like I did with my ex. Please help.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7236290http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7236290Dear Dr Pam... My boyfriend of nearly a year has had to return to Brazil and when he left he told me he no longer loves me. This has broken my heart and I cannot stop thinking about him. I haven't eaten or slept properly for weeks. Please help.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7529864http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7529864The pressure is always on for singles and couples alike to have an amazing time on Valentine's Day. Oh no, you're not allowed just to have a good time or enjoy it - you have to have the most perfect and romantic day ever. Sex and Love Expert Dr Pam Spurr reveals how you to enjoy it to the max if you're single - or part of a couple.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7235718http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7235718Dear Dr Pam... I recently broke up with my girlfriend after we both decided that we were no longer in love and just with each other for security. The problem is I'm now falling for one of our mutual friends. Should I act on my feelings, or leave things alone?Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7182819http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7182819Dear Dr Pam... I've recently been dumped by my girlfriend for being too needy and possessive. But when I went to collect my things from her flat, it seemed like she wasn't fully prepared for the relationship to be over. Should I try again with her or move on with my life?Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7176180http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7176180Dear Dr Pam... my boyfriend and I have been together for two years, but recently I found out he was sending flirty texts to a colleague at work. Nothing more happened and he says it made him want to be with me even more, but I'm finding it hard to forget about it.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7146852http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7146852Dear Dr Pam... I'm 51 years old and my girlfriend is a very beautiful 39-year-old. But the problem is we have completely different sex drives. She is happy to make love just once a month which is leaving me feeling unsatisfied. Please help.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7146659http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7146659Dear Dr Pam... I'm 16 but I feel my life is going nowhere. I've had a lot of problems in life to cope with, including the death of my mother when I was eight-years-old, and now I find it very hard to develop lasting relationships with girls. Please help.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6964424http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6964424Whether it's being apart from loved ones, battling the booze or mending family rifts, our sex and love expert Dr Pam Spurr explores what we can learn from the lives of the celebrities in the run-up to Christmas.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6900981http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6900981Dear Dr Pam, my boyfriend suffers from depression and always lets me down. I love him very much but former work colleagues have warned me he maybe seeing someone else. On top of that, he seems to be becoming abusive. I don't know what to do, please help.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6747413http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6747413Dear Dr Pam, I've been with my boyfriend for many years and we are devoted to one another. The problem I have is that even though I have a high sex drive, I find it really difficult to climax and have regularly faked it in the past. Can you tell me where I'm going wrong?Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6701483http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6701483Dear Dr Pam... I'm finding it really difficult to make friends. I worry that the conversations I have with people are dull and at 26 I feel my social skills should be better. I'd desperately like to meet people who I can talk with easily but don't know how to. Please help.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6601680http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6601680Dear Dr Pam, I've been having an affair with a lady I met through work but now it seems that she no longer wants to know me. We are both married with children but I have really fallen for this woman and I'm missing her like crazy.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6520829http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6520829Dear Dr Pam: my husband left me after ten-and-a-half years of marriage when I suffered my third miscarriage. We sold the family home and I have moved 200 miles away to be with my parents, but I still love and miss him terribly. The problem is he won't even talk to me. Please help.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6463722http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6463722Dear Dr Pam, my boyfriend left me for someone else and I can't stop blaming myself. I think about him and his new girlfriend all the time and wonder what I could have done differently to keep him. It's making my life a misery. Please help...Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6413130http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6413130Dear Dr Pam, I am completely in love with my long-distance boyfriend in Turkey - and he's told me he wants to marry me too. The problem is, I'm doing all of the legwork with the texting and phoning and I'm worried he may no longer feel the same.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6412453http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6412453Have you forgotten how to seduce your lover, or are you jumping into bed too quickly and not taking the time to make your partner feel sexy and special? Our sex and relationships expert Dr Pam has some seductive tips, tricks and techniques to try in the bedroom.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6349050http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6349050Dear Dr Pam, since my wife gave birth more than a year ago, we haven't been able to enjoy sex. We've been married for ten years, we have other children and we enjoyed a good sex life before. I'm sick of arguing with her about it and I don't know what to do, please help.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6293570http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6293570My husband has left home and my three children by him are now starting to get unruly. To complicate things further, I've begun to find solace in an old friend's husband and things feel like they're spinning out of control.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6292541http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6292541As Britney Spears loses custody of her two sons in a court battle with Kevin Federline, we ask Dr Pam Spurr how the ruling will affect the Hollywood star and her two children.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6229634http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6229634Have toy-boys become the latest celebrity fashion accessory? Our sex and relationships expert Dr Pam Spurr looks at why so many stars are choosing younger men.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6216580http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6216580Dear Dr Pam, I am young, attractive and engaged to be married next year to a man I love very much. But for some reason my sex drive seems to have disappeared and I don't know why. It's causing big problems in our relationship, please help.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6128784http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6128784Dear Dr Pam, I was heartbroken when my boyfriend and I split up earlier this year. But a few months on, we have decided to become friends again. The problem is, I now fancy one of his friends. Would it be ok to date him, or would I be causing trouble?Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6063415http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6063415Dear Dr Pam, I am in a stable relationship with a woman I love and I have never even looked at another woman. Well, up until now anyway. I've developed strong feelings for a girl at work that won't go away and I don't know what to do. Please help.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579688http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579688My mother has controlled my life to such an extent - and brought such misery to my girlfriend and I, that my girlfriend has now left me. I still love her very much and desperately want her back, but I don't know how best to try.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579655http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579655I need some advice as to whether to contact my father whom I've not seen or heard from in nearly 15 years. Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579654http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579654"I have been married to my wife for two years and we were seeing each other for many years before that."Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579653http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579653"I'm all in a muddle and can't see reality from what's in my head. I've lost so much confidence and belief in myself that I don't know where to start to sort out my life."Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579652http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579652I've become close to someone who I know from my home town. We've spent nearly every day together since the beginning of term and I now can't stop thinking about him.Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579651http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579651My problem is that recently we were talking about our youth and to my shock my wife admitted a brief fling with a guy who at the time was my best mate. Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579650http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579650I'm 36-year-old chef who lives in London. I'm single and live alone, which I'm quite contented about as I have always been a bit of a loner and I do enjoy my solitude. Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579649http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579649"My girlfriend drinks far too much, far too often. However, while I know this doesn't help, I believe this is a symptom of her problems rather than the root cause."Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579648http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579648"We have only slept together three times and it’s really coming between us. I feel so rejected and unattractive and think that he doesn't fancy me."Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579647http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579647"After eight years I got a full-time job which involved working long hours, coming home to a knackered husband and two small boys."Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579646http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579646"He is everything that I could ever want – intelligent, sensitive, fun, loving and popular – he used to make me feel amazing. "Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579645http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579645" It was a very rocky start as I was unhappily married. Nevertheless he moved in with me for two years."Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579644http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579644The trouble is that I still want him. I haven't seen or heard from him for more than a year. Mon, 12 May 2008 15:14:35 GMTAsk Pamhttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579673http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579673After 20 years and four sons, Gary and Michelle Lineker's marriage was thought to be one of the strongest in the public eye, so it comes as a huge surprise to learn they are separating. The childhood sweethearts, who met when their families ran market stalls next to each other in Leicester, are said to have "grown apart" in the last 12 months. A spokesman for the couple said: "No one else is involved and never has been. Gary and Michelle will remain good friends. Their main concern at this difficult time is the welfare of their children."Mon, 12 May 2008 14:37:56 GMTAsk Pam (Photos)http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579671http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579671Just two years after tying the knot and two months after giving birth to her second child, Britney Spears has announced she is divorcing former backup dancer and aspiring rapper Kevin Federline. Mon, 12 May 2008 14:37:56 GMTAsk Pam (Photos)http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579670http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579670Back at the beginning of 2007, the rumour-mill went into overtime as speculation mounted that Kate Moss and Pete Doherty were planning to tie the knot. Meanwhile, her friends were apparently 'secretly meeting' to see how they could 'save' their pal from Pete's clutches.Mon, 12 May 2008 14:37:56 GMTAsk Pam (Photos)http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8070957http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8070957If you're a megabucks millionaire who has the cash to splash (if only) then we've got some of the world's finest most exclusive wedding destinations for you and your spouse-to-be to party and honeymoon in for your big day.Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTSex Advicehttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6676305http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6676305You always knew fame and fortune weren't the only things in abundance. A new study breaks it down by the numbers.Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTSex Advicehttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5745779http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5745779If this doesn't get you reaching for your trainers then nothing will: recent research has found that fit people are having much better sex than their less active counterparts.Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTSex Advicehttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5745792http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5745792It is the superfood of the moment, and supermarkets and health shops alike are rushing to fill their shelves with packets of goji berries.Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTSex Advicehttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5745784http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5745784Sexual desire and food have been associated with each other for centuries. We went in search of foods thought to be strong aphrodisiacs. Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTSex Advicehttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579687http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579687Our agony aunt Dr Pam Spurr has written a brand-new sex guide: Sensational Sex - The Revolutionary Guide to Sexual Pleasure And Fulfilment, published by Robson Books, priced £7.99. To buy your copy for the special price of £6.99 plus Free UK P&P, simply call 0870 787 1613 and quote ref. CH678. Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTSex Advicehttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579686http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579686MySpace phenomenon Tila Tequila recently announced she had over one million friends on the networking website, but just 8% of our social circle are 'real' friends, according to new research. The experts reveal what makes a good friend and why we have mates we love to hate.Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTSex Advicehttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579685http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579685Successful seduction of the opposite sex has always been a hotly disputed topic but recent research suggests the mystery of attraction can be revealed. We talk to Dr Raj Persaud about being irresistible - and how to hold onto your perfect partner.Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTSex Advicehttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579684http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579684Our Sex and Love Doc, Dr Pam Spurr, analyses what really might be going on with Katie Holmes and Victoria Beckham's friendship.Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTSex Advicehttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579680http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/article.aspx?cp-documentid=5579680If you're an AFC who wants to become a PUA and enjoy a little kinko with a SHB, then a dating bootcamp could be for you. Hugh Wilson delves into the world of seduction schools. Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:19 GMTSex Advicehttp://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579698http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579698Curvy Kelly Brook has the shape most of us envy, according to a survey of 5,000 women by Grazia magazine. Here's who else made the top 10. Click on the thumbnails to discover what they really think of their figures. Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:04 GMTSex Advice (Photos)http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579696http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579696The Actor Move over Hugh Grant, there's a new boy in town. Having left the world of banking to write and star in the upcoming Heroes and Villains David Raymond will soon be a name on everyone's lips. Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:04 GMTSex Advice (Photos)http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579694http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/inthebedroom/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579694The photo opportunity of the year so far came on Monday night when Kate Moss and Jemima Khan locked lips at a charity bash. Mon, 12 May 2008 14:18:04 GMTSex Advice (Photos)