<?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Sex and Relationships | Ask Pam - MSN UK Style</title><link>Dating, relationship guides from MSN, for marriage, homelife and personal help for couples and singles.</link><description>Dating, relationship guides from MSN, for marriage, homelife and personal help for couples and singles.</description><copyright>© 2007</copyright><language>English</language><image><url>http://stc.msn.com/br/intl/life/img/1/msn_pos_uk.gif</url><title>Sex and Relationships | Ask Pam - MSN UK Style</title><link>Dating, relationship guides from MSN, for marriage, homelife and personal help for couples and singles.</link></image><ttl>5</ttl><category>Sex and Relationships</category><item><title>My partner's daughter is so demanding!</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8974690</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8974690</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... my partner has four grown-up children and I have a young daughter. We both live together but the problem is one of his daughters is utterly possessive of him - calling him first thing in the morning and last thing at night. It's getting in the way of our relationship. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>My husband is never around</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8974243</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8974243</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I have been married to my husband for two years but he constantly spends all of his time around at his ex's and I have found text messages between them telling each other they love one another. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>I can't stop thinking about my office fling</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8973998</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8973998</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I'm 30 and married to the man who I've been with since the age of 18. Everything was fine until six months ago when I started falling for a guy at work. He's told me it's only physical but I just can't stop thinking about him. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>My partner won't meet my friends</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8972501</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8972501</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I am in a relationship which I hope will last for the rest of my days! We are both 50 and both have children. But the problem is my partner won't meet any of my friends - and I haven't met his family yet. I'd like us to move forward but don't know how to. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>My girlfriend is emotionally abusive</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8972078</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8972078</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I have been with my girlfriend for 13 years but she is incredibly emotionally abusive. I can't seem to do anything right around the house or in the bedroom and I wonder if at 39 I should stay, or leave. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>My husband has had an affair</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8971978</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8971978</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... my husband of 31 years has revealed he had a three-year affair with the wife of one of our friends. This has come as a complete bombshell and I can't seem to cope with things at the moment. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Embarrassed in the bedroom</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8971739</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8971739</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... my boyfriend and I have a wonderful relationship and get on like the best of friends. The problem is, I often feel embarrassed in the bedroom, even though he tells me he thinks I'm gorgeous/sexy. Please help!</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>I feel let down by everybody</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8971554</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8971554</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I am someone with a huge lack of confidence and have suffered rejection from my parents, my grandmother and now my boyfriend. He has started to turn violent towards me and I don't know what to do. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>The custody battle</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8916663</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8916663</guid><description>As Britney Spears and Kevin Federline begin a battle for custody of their children, our relationships expert and agony aunt Dr Pam Spurr tackles the tough topic of how best to handle a marriage break-up and protect the children if it happens. </description><enclosure length="2830" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/94/76073DB1AA2C627E8D8266D0DC.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>My boyfriend has left me because of his mother</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8784167</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8784167</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam...Out of respect for his mother he has said we cannot be together and I know this decision was very hard for him. Even though religion was going to be an issue for us, I don't think he was ready for the response that his mom gave, which was basically that she would disown him if he were to bring any other girl apart from their religion back home... What should I do?</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Sienna's heartbreak and why mismatched couples should beware!</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8691315</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8691315</guid><description>As Sienna Miller and Rhys Ifans decide whether to split for good or make a go of things, our Sex and Relationships Expert Dr Pam Spurr looks at why mismatched relationships can sometimes be doomed from the beginning.</description><enclosure length="3326" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/FF/6E0BC75416B99A06AD89B3E56A31C.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>You CAN get out of a violent and abusive relationship</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8339054</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8339054</guid><description>Our relationship expert and agony aunt Dr Pam has recently received several problems from readers who are being emotionally or physically abused by their partners. Here she talks us through the signs, offers advice on what to do - and reveals how to get out. </description><enclosure length="2486" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/29/B5D92E46E5FA579E85C0551BB7B5A6.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Trying to be a superwoman and feeling like a super-failure</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8301215</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8301215</guid><description>Our relationship expert and agony aunt, Dr Pam Spurr, receives many problems from women who feel like they're trying to do it all and failing. And us mere mortals are not the only ones: it's a problem that's also hitting successful celebrities. Here, she tells it like it is.</description><enclosure length="2915" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/2B/4EF274D95459F7694D5B3A11C12E9.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>My husband has destroyed my self-esteem</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8257905</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8257905</guid><description>I'm a wife and mother of four boys but I feel so sad and lonely I just can't believe this is as good as it gets. My husband is so abusive when we have arguments, it has completely destroyed my self-esteem. Please help. </description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>I treat my wonderful boyfriend badly</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8258355</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8258355</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... In my last relationship, I found out that my partner had been cheating on me all along with another girl - and his friends knew the whole time. I am now with a perfect boyfriend who is really good to me, but I keep trying to push him away. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>My husband has panic attacks and becomes verbally abusive</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8258204</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8258204</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... my partner and his family have always had issues dealing with stress but now he gets chest pains and says it feels like he's having a heart attack. He's also verbally abusive and I've started dreading coming home from work some days. What can I do to help?</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>My girlfriend shied away after sex</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8256245</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8256245</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... when my girlfriend and I got together I was a bit more sexually experienced than she was, so we took things very slowly. We only told our very close friends about our relationship, but one of them made a joke which has left her blanking me. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Mum's affair has sent me spiralling into depression</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8255604</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8255604</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I recently found out that my mum is having an affair. I love both my parents dearly and haven't told my dad because it would destroy him. I'm now beginning to feel like life is getting on top of me and I don't enjoy doing the things I always used to. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>My husband is using religion to bully our children</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8255411</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8255411</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... my husband is so over-sensitive that I cannot have a discussion about anything - however polite or nice - with him. And now he's started forcing our children to go to four hour church ceremonies every week, which they hate. How can I help them out without it causing a war at home?</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Stop worrying about your wedding! </title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8061403</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=8061403</guid><description>Our agony aunt and relationships expert Dr Pam Spurr advises brides-to-be how to beat those wedding-day nerves.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Am I depressed again?</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7939444</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7939444</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I suffered from depression when I was 16 and I think it may be coming back. I'm becoming extremely paranoid around my fiancé and am worried I might drive him away. I've also put on weight since having our baby daughter and feel things are spiralling out of control.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>My husband may be gay</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7939129</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7939129</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I've recently discovered that my husband has been looking at gay websites and he says he doesn't love me because he doesn't know what love is. We have four children, two of which are having difficulties, and I don't know what to do.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>I Miss Life In The UK</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7830479</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7830479</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I was abused as a child, and got into shoplifting as a teenager. I currently live abroad with my husband and our children, but I still suffer with bouts of depression and find myself wondering if life would be better back in Britain. </description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Recognising Depression</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7640112</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7640112</guid><description>As a major new study finds that anti-depressant drugs don't work for the majority of people who take them, this raises all sorts of concerns for the one in 10 people who suffer from serious depression. "What will help me if anti-depressants won't?" will be a big and justified question on their mind.</description><enclosure length="3109" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/1B/B39C21768CD7E4B92586FEB5CA3CB.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>We Never See Our Granddaughter</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7590809</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7590809</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... my husband and I have been married for nearly 40 years and have a happy, loving relationship. The problem is we're finding it increasingly hard to see our son and our granddaughter, because his wife doesn't seem to want us there. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Childhood Rejection Has Left Me Anxious</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7567609</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7567609</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I have a great husband and three wonderful children, as well as good lifelong friends. My problem is that I had a very difficult childhood, and it's left me feeling awkward and panicky in social situations. I want to get over this as life is too short. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Relationship Destroyed My Confidence</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7567213</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7567213</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I escaped from an abusive relationship which left me with no confidence and a lot of self-loathing. I'm now with a lovely new man who is kind to me and my daughter, but I keep feeling that I have to prove myself to him, like I did with my ex. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>I'm Desperate About Him</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7236290</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7236290</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... My boyfriend of nearly a year has had to return to Brazil and when he left he told me he no longer loves me. This has broken my heart and I cannot stop thinking about him. I haven't eaten or slept properly for weeks. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>The Perfect Valentine's Day</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7529864</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7529864</guid><description>The pressure is always on for singles and couples alike to have an amazing time on Valentine's Day. Oh no, you're not allowed just to have a good time or enjoy it - you have to have the most perfect and romantic day ever. Sex and Love Expert Dr Pam Spurr reveals how you to enjoy it to the max if you're single - or part of a couple.</description><enclosure length="3599" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/A5/226B423E9653871181B125D70458F.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>I fancy a friend of my ex</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7235718</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7235718</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I recently broke up with my girlfriend after we both decided that we were no longer in love and just with each other for security. The problem is I'm now falling for one of our mutual friends. Should I act on my feelings, or leave things alone?</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Should I Get Back With Her?</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7182819</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7182819</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I've recently been dumped by my girlfriend for being too needy and possessive. But when I went to collect my things from her flat, it seemed like she wasn't fully prepared for the relationship to be over. Should I try again with her or move on with my life?</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>He Sent Her Flirty Texts</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7176180</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7176180</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... my boyfriend and I have been together for two years, but recently I found out he was sending flirty texts to a colleague at work. Nothing more happened and he says it made him want to be with me even more, but I'm finding it hard to forget about it.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>We Have Different Sex Drives</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7146852</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7146852</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I'm 51 years old and my girlfriend is a very beautiful 39-year-old. But the problem is we have completely different sex drives. She is happy to make love just once a month which is leaving me feeling unsatisfied. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Life is Going Nowhere at 16</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7146659</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=7146659</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I'm 16 but I feel my life is going nowhere. I've had a lot of problems in life to cope with, including the death of my mother when I was eight-years-old, and now I find it very hard to develop lasting relationships with girls. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>What we can learn from the stars at Xmas</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6964424</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6964424</guid><description>Whether it's being apart from loved ones, battling the booze or mending family rifts, our sex and love expert Dr Pam Spurr explores what we can learn from the lives of the celebrities in the run-up to Christmas.</description><enclosure length="2702" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/4C/FFC75E923C8FDB7EC35478BAE5CF4.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>My Boyfriend Is Ignoring Me</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6900981</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6900981</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam, my boyfriend suffers from depression and always lets me down. I love him very much but former work colleagues have warned me he maybe seeing someone else. On top of that, he seems to be becoming abusive. I don't know what to do, please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>I find it hard to climax</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6747413</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6747413</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam, I've been with my boyfriend for many years and we are devoted to one another. The problem I have is that even though I have a high sex drive, I find it really difficult to climax and have regularly faked it in the past. Can you tell me where I'm going wrong?</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>I Find It Hard To Make Friends</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6701483</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6701483</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam... I'm finding it really difficult to make friends. I worry that the conversations I have with people are dull and at 26 I feel my social skills should be better. I'd desperately like to meet people who I can talk with easily but don't know how to. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>I Don't Know What To Do</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6601680</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6601680</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam, I've been having an affair with a lady I met through work but now it seems that she no longer wants to know me. We are both married with children but I have really fallen for this woman and I'm missing her like crazy.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>How Can I Reach Out To Him?</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6520829</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6520829</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam: my husband left me after ten-and-a-half years of marriage when I suffered my third miscarriage. We sold the family home and I have moved 200 miles away to be with my parents, but I still love and miss him terribly. The problem is he won't even talk to me. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>I blame myself for the break-up</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6463722</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6463722</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam, my boyfriend left me for someone else and I can't stop blaming myself. I think about him and his new girlfriend all the time and wonder what I could have done differently to keep him. It's making my life a misery. Please help...</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Does My Long-Distance Man Still Love Me?</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6413130</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6413130</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam, I am completely in love with my long-distance boyfriend in Turkey - and he's told me he wants to marry me too. The problem is, I'm doing all of the legwork with the texting and phoning and I'm worried he may no longer feel the same.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Fabulous Foreplay To Seduce Your Lover!</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6412453</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6412453</guid><description>Have you forgotten how to seduce your lover, or are you jumping into bed too quickly and not taking the time to make your partner feel sexy and special? Our sex and relationships expert Dr Pam has some seductive tips, tricks and techniques to try in the bedroom.</description><enclosure length="3186" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/55/5F65CC3A193135475815B55B669E.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>The Baby Arrived: The Sex Left</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6349050</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6349050</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam, since my wife gave birth more than a year ago, we haven't been able to enjoy sex. We've been married for ten years, we have other children and we enjoyed a good sex life before. I'm sick of arguing with her about it and I don't know what to do, please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Feeling out of control</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6293570</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6293570</guid><description>My husband has left home and my three children by him are now starting to get unruly. To complicate things further, I've begun to find solace in an old friend's husband and things feel like they're spinning out of control.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Britney's Custody Battle</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6292541</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6292541</guid><description>As Britney Spears loses custody of her two sons in a court battle with Kevin Federline, we ask Dr Pam Spurr how the ruling will affect the Hollywood star and her two children.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Why the stars love toy boys</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6229634</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6229634</guid><description>Have toy-boys become the latest celebrity fashion accessory? Our sex and relationships expert Dr Pam Spurr looks at why so many stars are choosing younger men.</description><enclosure length="2657" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/9E/DF92ADA67D7E1D42B2AFD6585D3.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>I don't know where my sex drive has gone</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6216580</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6216580</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam, I am young, attractive and engaged to be married next year to a man I love very much. But for some reason my sex drive seems to have disappeared and I don't know why. It's causing big problems in our relationship, please help.</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Is it ok to date an ex's friend?</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6128784</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6128784</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam, I was heartbroken when my boyfriend and I split up earlier this year. But a few months on, we have decided to become friends again. The problem is, I now fancy one of his friends. Would it be ok to date him, or would I be causing trouble?</description><enclosure length="2395" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/51/D3F29DDE511A2D4DF574965AA8A768.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>I love my girlfriend, but I fancy a colleague</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6063415</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/article.aspx?cp-documentid=6063415</guid><description>Dear Dr Pam, I am in a stable relationship with a woman I love and I have never even looked at another woman. Well, up until now anyway. I've developed strong feelings for a girl at work that won't go away and I don't know what to do. Please help.</description><enclosure length="2457" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/58/F815C48AFA5777E25FCF9D8076BA28.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 12:38:38 GMT</pubDate><category>Ask Pam</category></item><item><title>Unlikely Celebrity Splits</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579673</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579673</guid><description>After 20 years and four sons, Gary and Michelle Lineker's marriage was thought to be one of the strongest in the public eye, so it comes as a huge surprise to learn they are separating. The childhood sweethearts, who met when their families ran market stalls next to each other in Leicester, are said to have "grown apart" in the last 12 months. A spokesman for the couple said: "No one else is involved and never has been. Gary and Michelle will remain good friends. Their main concern at this difficult time is the welfare of their children."</description><enclosure length="2593" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/60/1DF9E03F649979B65B1EB922188E.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 14:12:33 GMT</pubDate><category>In The Bedroom</category></item><item><title>Oops, She Did It Again </title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579671</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579671</guid><description>Just two years after tying the knot and two months after giving birth to her second child, Britney Spears has announced she is divorcing former backup dancer and aspiring rapper Kevin Federline. </description><enclosure length="2935" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/52/5516FE5D51993FAA7788D389612E27.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 14:12:33 GMT</pubDate><category>In The Bedroom</category></item><item><title>Kate Moss and Pete Doherty</title><link>http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579670</link><guid isPermaLink="true">http://style.uk.msn.com/sexandrelationships/askpam/gallery.aspx?cp-documentid=5579670</guid><description>Back at the beginning of 2007, the rumour-mill went into overtime as speculation mounted that Kate Moss and Pete Doherty were planning to tie the knot. Meanwhile, her friends were apparently 'secretly meeting' to see how they could 'save' their pal from Pete's clutches.</description><enclosure length="3081" url="http://estb.msn.com/i/34/A462A82EC15D46D64BD320E44468F3.jpg" type="image/jpeg"></enclosure><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 14:12:33 GMT</pubDate><category>In The Bedroom</category></item></channel></rss>